Responses
Appearance of What is Really Visible
- Socieity has taught us, or maybe it is just our survival instincts that have kicked into gear, to get dressed everyday, bathe, wash your clothes, brush your teeth and just do things to appear more likeable at first.
- It is this appearance of things that also leads us to behave in what is considered more socially appropriate manners at least as a general rule. That is why you would not see someone use language that is unbecoming in polite society around a lady unless of course there is been quite a suddenness of shock to the system. It is also this likeability that necessitates we say excuse me maam just to ensure that the air has been cleared and there is no hard feelings or remaining ill will. Just like that too, society demands on the woman a response of instant forgiveness of whatever trespass was uttered against her and an overlooking the slip of the tongue yet again. At least, it works that way when you go back a few hundred years. Perhaps this generation has gotten younger, who knows about it really, and thus has long since forgotten the ancient art of forgiveness.
- That is just to say that practically speaking likeability in this day and age thankfully does not require the social skills of a knight errant nor yet those of a crusader that is been bent over backwards.
- Likeability can also be found in our songs and our movies. Rarely if ever will you find a movie where the people are not trying to fit in to wherever they were at, whatever they were doing, or when.
- Instantly likeable is like putting your best foot forward so to speak all in the hopes of making a good impression of sorts. It is also what leads us to adapt or change with the times. Back in the day nobody had phones except for the ones that were attached to the house which you got to listen into of course and now we all have them almost wherever we go. That is to say, doing anything to fit in leads to adaptability in social surroundings and lets us tailor our responses more carefully just to carry on with the crowd. Feedback from people and social responses are all clues that lets us know whether or not what we were doing is working for us there as a person. Based on responses, we were able to do something differently or just stay the same.
- Not fitting in can impede with your work and have other socially undesirable results there and stuff. In the perfect world, this would not be an issue as much as it is when surrounded by crowds.
- Individuality also is what makes you unique and set apart in every way else. It is who you were naturally speaking as determined by summative matter or knowing or whatever your desires and aims are as a person
Experientially Speaking
- Basically experience is that little voice of reason behind everything else. Say for instance that I have known better experientially speaking than what is currently happening. I was more likely to act a certain way based off the information that I have already known. Should someone come in with some really good news when all I have had is defeat and disappointment and a receiving of bad things at the hands of all men, I was more likely going to be skeptical at first and then wonder when will it end.
- This voice of reason technically speaking is what leads some to observation first and then questioning later about it. That is to say your past very much influences how you view things right now. Then too it just might determine you were here-after that is unless you do something about it.
- Thus it is technically possible to have hope towards an end but to know deep down inside that nothing will change.
- Others too are more likely to behave in certain ways that could be considered quite cruel all based off their prior expectations, experiences, or knowledges there as a person
- Perhaps you have never heard it before, but that is where the popular expression of self-sabotaging comes into play. Self-sabotage is making a course of action based off the experiences that proves harmful to others and the self in the long run or in the immediate short-term. It might not be visible though at first, which is where many fall into the trap of thinking everything is just fine and they were getting by with it. Practically speaking it is justified is not it as an act of protecting the self at least experientially which is where these things fit in at in the end. The only trouble with that is by the time the actions have proven harmful later on, the person no longer is able to connect their actions with the newly experienced and instead relates it on back to the trouble at hand.
- With that view in mind, there is no true growth in the midst because the voice of reason gets quite drowned out by the experientially crowd.
- Returning then back to the focus at hand requires simply a perspective that is just as it seems. It neither enlarges what has happened by focusing later nor puts it down ever so small almost as though it were nothing at all. Escaping the voice of experientially speaking is nothing more than enabling yourself as a person.
Minimization the things of Creation
- At times the things of this life get built up ever so tall. That is where we get the phrase making mountains out of molehills as whatever we have built up around us ever so tall though what if they come crashing down to become ever so small. If you think it sounds much as does a house of cards to consider, you were probably right about that one thing truly. The only issue with card houses is that of the smallest breeze having brought them in dissarray down like so many games that you were playing.
- Though it is not a game is it then but simply life with consequences and meanings. Sure it gets overwhelming at times merely just trying to find your place in this world. God must have some sort of purpose in trying to find meaning of course more than just your currently focus. When something becomes so big that it is your whole world or so small as though it is almost nothing at all, that is what we would call minimization.
- It can alternatively be call marginialization where you would find that is just being pushed off to the side. It is difficult certainly to have someone count you out of the running but you must think first of all of the pain that is taken place in their hearts and their minds. Consider too it is got to be to have so minimized your fellow creation and humans. Certainly I could have called someone a patient but we were not putting up with all this nor are we just something to set aside whenever your time here has come to a close.
- That is about like saying your providers and staff are nothing more than the dust on your shoes. Jesus would not want to hear of any such thing now would he considering all that he has done for the humans. What is a few more or less of that number until you consider yourself also a member.
- At times the leprosy of unreality can overshadow whatever really that is visible though our God is able to raise you up from ever so small and make you to stand be it ever so tall.
Rationalizing the Brain
- With that in mind, there is got to be some other way to feel less guilty about how we might have treated other people. Certainly when it comes to the own situations we find put ourselves in or the choices that are made by our own behavior there is got to be some way of rationalizing it later.
- Rationalization at this point is nothing more than a feel-good fixer upper. That is to say, it is not even focusing on more than one side of an angle. Basically rationalization can go one of two ways in the thinking. It is either going to be for or against whichever way that you were talking or acting out later though rarely it is ever actually honest as far as the whole total scope of the issue.
- Since we were not sure what rationalization is just yet, consider this in a general manner of talking. I have got perfectly good reasons for going there later, it is just that we have not yet stopped to consider.
- Therefore, the for side of the thinking goes something like this once again. It is got to be that way does not it for something else to come in. After all, we have got perfectly good reasons for all that we would see ourselves as a person.
- On the opposite side of the equation comes the against side of the function where you were not even listening half as well as you should and certainly not enough for a stop to consider. Basically to say it is all that is needful for yourself as a person expecially with a relative differential in thinking.
- Though the truth of the matter is that I have not even paused to consider at least not really as far as your becoming a person. It is done for one of two purposes either to ease collective guilt or absolve responsibility there on the whole. What is there to be done then but to trust all our ways on back to the Lord.
Explanation
- Explanation is more like the natural ways of selection. It is seeing clearly what events led to a certain moment and then too a pause for reflection.
- Journaling is one type of detailing explanations for looking back on much later. It is something that evolves your thoughts and your feelings and whether or not they have any factual basis in what is reality seeking. These are also really good tools for what would otherwise be therapeutic cause for reflection. In some cases, after something particularly distressing had happened, it is important to look back on your feelings and actions. That is so that if anything needs to change for next time professionaly speaking and also that feelings may not grow overwhelming.
- Reality seeking means at the very least staying true to the script even if the events are less than flattering no matter what it would mean to you as a person.
- In most cases reality is as determined by the situation rather than personal definition of the things that have happened. To invite something more is simply the madness of crowds whether that is people or just thoughts then in full.
- The other type of explanation involves something more than your thoughts, or feelings, and whatever has happened. It is more akin to rationalization and something of minimization also slipped in which is not of much use practically speaking.
- Of course, some will probably wonder to what purpose is a good explanation with a reason behind it which is where the question comes in. Without that, it is to no purpose is not it just as would a confessional service be where the only thing relieved is just you and me.
Question
- Talking comes in all sorts of questions every once in awhile which is vital for information sharing and also exchange as a person.
- More common uses for questions include clarity and sincerity speaking. Every once in a while though, you would have someone who knows where they were going. Knowing where your going and also taking others on a journey or a walk to remember is synonymous with a leading question in full.
- Questions can range from anywhere to simple decisions to life changing moments in history Which can vary in intensity from purpose to desired responses to leading right in.
- Leading right in can refer to questioning that is made sure of right where you were going. In fact, it is all coming down to a general conclusion that the person being spoken to is led on right into.
- Simple questions are things like asking if you were in pain at the moment and what are you wanting for supper. These help find out information that is necessary for life to run along smoothly or without getting to know you too deeply.
- More complicated things are questions like what are you doing it for then and have you ever considered of just stopping the show. These are things that get to the heart of the matter or knowing you better still as a person.
- Then there is life changing matters of what you would rather lose your heart or your soul and what all would you give just in exchange for the Lord. Certainly they imply there is some level of discussion behind it which is where explanation comes in at just before or just after. Though none of that is complete without planning sitting around on the matter at hand.
Planning
- Planning basically is whatever it takes to set dreaming in motion. It can also be used for a number of other things like how typically to start off the day. That is not be say it would be the right way but it cannot hurt certainly when it comes to being a person.
- Usually this is what some have labeled as planners and sold on the market for half a good fortune.
- The trouble with planners is that they run into to-do lists around here somewhere and most everyone knows that those things are not getting done.
- That is because most people are terrible with planning and execution matters in general. Execution means simply following it through. It is easier to make connections with people in ways that would matter than it is to get anything done.
- When it comes to matters of spoken will and intention, some people say usually that they would do it someday. Then it is either shelved off in a long forgotten corner of memory or else altogether forgotten entirely.
- Writing stuff down though to be done again later is somewhat of a gamble. Either some people will go off and lose the paper or else the intention that matters. Without some accountability though it can be hard to ensure success on the issue at hand.
Connection
- Connections are all about the brains ability in some part, form, or function to carry messages from one side to the next and from there out the synapses and down to the nerves. There is a whole number of things delaying response or improving transmissions there on the whole. It is a whole lot more than electrical impulses and neurotransmitters and also some hormones. That is to say, there is a good deal of things left to bear on the whole.
- Certainly experientially plays a good part of whatever is readily seen from appearances to the other parts of the whole that have been looked at so far.
- These have a part to play in reinforcing connections or pathways between whatever is visible to what is there at the end or between the stimulus, impulse, and the reception of values.
- On the whole connections with others are not readily learned. In fact, they were learned only through a good deal or trial and error wherein parallel learning occurs. Then it is on to the stages of fighting for toys, resources, or simply the sharing of friends.
- All these other things determine pathways learned and also the development state wherein the pathways were formed. Then all at once it is not surprising that the situation is blown completely out of proportion or that the connections were inappropriate or hastily formed.
- Breaking this network down involves reconnecting the person though at first quite possibly some are not quite sure how this occurs.
Ignorance
- There is times and places where those of us do not seem to know quite as much as we should. It is only humanly speaking that we do not know everything from beginning to end, from death to the birth, relatively speaking or at least it is when you were human and then.
- Surely the angels might know a bit more than the humans and of course than even the demons. Still though, when speaking of these orders it invites a few different levels of knowing. Religiously speaking, the angels know the place where God stands up by his throne. Perhaps they do not know quite as much as he does nor yet of all of his works unto men.
- Therefore, there is different levels of knowing which requiring a being invited and also something that matters. Say for instance that I do not care about Christ and the gospel nor yet preaching the Word unto men. This is a disobedience as of the demons that goes against everything known of so far.
- The demons also have violated their two orders of knowledge, as first of all caring has gotten affected. Then too some cannot see how it relates unto them.
- Humans involve much the same patterns of knowledge and also a similar social structure and rules at least when it relates to the lives of others otherwise if not you would have everyone doing the first thing that came into mind.
- Spkeaing of, that is where ignorance has come in once more for much the same sorts of reasons. Perhaps some have not been invited to share in the knowledge. Perhaps it is not commonly known and goes about undiscovered or so. Perhaps some have not cared because it relates to you how or the hearers of it whenever these listened. For this cause then had man only known they would not have crucified the own Son of Glory.
Annoyance
- As so often it happens we being human are oh so prone to getting it twisted. We like to relate to other people who are much on our level which is almost quite natural.
- Only thing is that things are not natural see when it reflects poorly there on you and on me.
- That is just what we were discussing is not it, this secondary feeling of getting annoyance.
- Perhaps you were tempted to feel that these really should have known better than causing such mess, raising a fuss, and also this trouble. Sure, there is a whole host of other reasons that we can find for getting annoyance, which is par for the individual course of the matters.
- Other reasons for annoyances proper have to do with where opinions are conflicting and where facts have got twisted. At this point, it is easily speaking to just go ahead and give on into sin. There is no reason that annoyances cannot lead to a healthy discussion, disagreement, and a hearty resolution of structures.
- Simply put, once begun most do not know where to start or even where their leaving off should be that once played a part.
- Thus, it is easier simply to make this a feeling through acknowledgement and simply a solution than to just give in to the run-away train.
Hope Until the End
- Sure, trials come and go in this life as far as some things would seem. It is only a natural part of our hope unto him.
- Some would think this life is all there is with it is mountains and valleys, with everything so dark and so dim and at times it is hard to see to keep trusting in him.
- Hope though as the Scriptures would say makes itself not ashamed for those that patiently wait for it and also those that look unto him.
- Hope then it more than just a feeling but a belief and a reason, an outlook most proper that things will eventually get better.
- Nor does everything stay all dark and all grieving in every seasons without a having a reason.
- Though when discussing hope and how it does not spring ever eternal in the mothers breast as the writers have said, it is first seen that before hope comes the trials and with them the seasons.
- Just like as in Ecclesiastes, there is a time for every season underneath Heaven and a purpose to be found with the Son.
- Hope too means the night will not last forever, the trials will give way to the future, and eternity will eventually come in with the Son.
- Just as sure and certain as the sun will rise, hope is the certainty that lights up the skies. It would help if there is some basis for it knowing both in whom you trust and having seen it time and time again.
- Lacking hope though it is easier to give in to all the darkness and bad things that dwell without a light within.
- When the sun is out, these stay well beneath the surface safely hidden, fed, and loved, and coddled even. Though when the sun goes down and the night returns there once again, it is easy to light up a few candles and so to put down all the flowers. Though, in the darkest dark of night without even half so hardly such a light, these things tend to sneak back in like so many bad companies you would hardly hoped to see or hear or number.
- When though your trust is founded, firm, secure fixed upon another One, even that of Jesus Christ Gods Son, it becomes a hope unto the end.